Tuesday, September 30, 2008
WHY NOT TO GO ON A DATE
I read an article on cnn.com about 5 different reasons why maybe you should stay home and not go on a date. The article talks about the positive side of dating whereas it also shows that some of the time going on a date isn't worth it if you aren't mentally prepared. The five reasons why not to go on a date are you're lonely, you're desperate, you're infectious, you're not over him, or you're drunk. Going on a date as an attempt to make your self feel better because you're only can only make you feel worse if the fate goes badly. If you're just desperate you might rush into things too quickly because you want to "perfect relationship". If you are infectious don't go on the date. You wouldn't want your date to be coughing all over you or something so it's more respectful of you to stay home and reschedule your outgoing. If you start dating and you still fill like your not quite over the last guy then that's a sign you should hold out the dating for awhile. Finally if you're drunk or need to have a couple drinks to settle down because you're so nervous you shouldn't be going on a date. You should be yourself not the someone you become when incoxicated. I think that the study of relationships are very interesting and that you can learn a lot how people function and think. This article I found very obvious to me, I didn't learn anything new I just assumed all of this information on my own. I didn't need this article to figure those suggestions out. This made me realize though that not everyone is on the same page as me and that everyone is going threw different things in their life and at the time these s suggestions that might at the time seem simple to me may not be so simple for someone going threw emotional stress.
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